The Wit's Guide to Sex
Or, templated temptresses
The undisputed championnes of sexy wit (and possibly witty sex) were a certain coterie of mid-20th century Hollywood starlets. Led by Mae West, with supporting roles played by the likes of Marilyn Monroe and Tallulah Bankhead — pause breathily here for the décolletage joke about the best supported actresses — these sirens of the silver screen inverted the classic storytelling rule: They told, but they didn’t show.
“Sex is an emotion in motion.”
— Mae West
Just as the best horror movies put off revealing the monster for as long as possible, these leading ladies did a lot of leading while preserving, for the most part, their position as ladies.
“I used to be Snow White, but I drifted.”
— Mae West
“I’m as pure as the driven slush.”
— Tallulah Bankhead
West began her career on Broadway, where she mastered the art of innuendo. Just as a good speech is like a dress that’s short enough to arouse interest but long enough to cover the important parts, her stage shows caused scandal but not quite enough to get them shut down. “Is the stage jazzing down to hell?” asked the New York Daily Graphic in a 1926 headline written before Betteridge’s Law was unanimously passed by the world’s editors. As the caption of a fairly chaste front-page photo naively noted: “This picture shows Mae West in Sex, which plays to capacity, regardless of the storm of protest it has aroused.” So even though it was widely talked about, people still wanted to see it? How unexpected!
When the authorities finally barged in on Sex after a mere 390 performances, they had a hard time explaining exactly what was so flagrante about the delicto.
“Miss West moved her navel up and down and from right to left,” a vice squad sergeant testified unconvincingly at her obscenity trial in 1927. The accused took her lumps with pleasure, saying, “Considering what Sex got me, a few days in the pen and a $500 fine ain’t too bad a deal.”
“It is better to be looked over than overlooked.”
— Mae West
“Whenever I’m caught between two evils, I take the one I’ve never tried.”
— Mae West
West created the template for a temptress later used to great effect by Marilyn Monroe, who once, when asked what she had on during a photo shoot, replied “the radio.” Capturing the public imagination while leaving much to said imagination was the whole game. The less they had to say and show, the sexier they could be.
“You can say what you like about long dresses, but they cover a multitude of shins.”
— Mae West
Toni Morrison put her finger on the problem with overexposure in a 1993 interview with the Paris Review. “Sex is difficult to write about because it’s just not sexy enough,” she said. “The only way to write about it is not to write much. Let the reader bring his own sexuality into the text.”
“If you start saying ‘the curve of…’ you soon sound like a gynecologist. Only Joyce could get away with that.”
— Toni Morrison
The trick, then, is to avoid all the obvious words. Eschew the anatomical and sidestep the slang. A deeply dirty joke should slide through email filters with lubricated ease. And since we’ve come this far, here’s an impossible-to-confirm exchange between Victorian sexpot Lillie Langtry and her lover, the Prince of Wales who would later be King Edward VII. “I’ve spent enough on you to buy a battleship,” he complained, to which she responded, “And you’ve spent enough in me to float one.”
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Mae West’s wordplay as foreplay
Tallulah Bankhead’s garrulous extroversion
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